
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
Lexi's getting baptized

Lexi has decided to get baptized this Friday, February 20th at 6:30 pm. The Centerville Stake Center address is 950 North Main Street in Centerville. All of our family and friends are welcome and invited to attend. We appreciate your support and look forward to seeing you on Friday!
Sunday, February 15, 2009
Trevor and Burgundy are married!

On Thursday, February 12th Trevor and Burgundy were married in the Bountiful Utah Temple. On Wednesday evening we had a nice wedding dinner with lots of family and friends. We're fotunate to have so many family members and good friends that helped us make this a great event.
Here is also a link to a short video that was produced Thursday by a terrific videograper named David Perry. Enjoy...
Sunday, January 18, 2009
3 Months and counting...
Lexi has been home with us now for just over 3 months! She is doing very well. She continues to have new experiences and do quite well in school. Ashlie and Shea helped Lexi overcome her fear of water and have taught her how to swim! She now asks if we can go swimming at our pool almost every day :)
Lexi has also gone to her first Jazz game and loved the movie "Twilight". In fact, she is now reading "Twilight" in English and understands 90%+ of what she's reading after only 3 months in the country. She gave an oral report in her English class this week about that book highlighting what she has been reading. Her English teacher described her presentation as "amazing' when she learned that Lexi has only been here for such a short period of time.
Christmas at the Cabin
We spent Christmas this year at our cabin in Heber. We had all of our family together (9 of us now with Trevor's fiance Burgundy) and had a terrific time! Some of the highlights were a horse drawn sleigh ride and Cowboy Grub Dinner in Park City, sledding at the cabin, new pajamas for everyone and just spending time together while it showed 2 feet outside.
Sunday, November 9, 2008
Trevor and Burgundy are engaged!
Monday, November 3, 2008
One Month Today!
The family keeps growing
First Date
A Schnoodle joins the family!
Lexi and Alisha on ATV's for the first time!
Lexi and Alisha at the cabin
The new look!
Tuesday, October 7, 2008
We made it home!
The top picture is the welcome home banner our kids put together for Lexi :)
The middle picture is a great shot of all of our kids! Left to right - Derek, Ryan, Ashlie (Ryan's wife), Lexi, Shea, Trevor, and Burgundy (Trevor's girlfriend)
It's great to all be back together again. We're really looking forward to having Lexi join our family. Thanks to everyone for your kind messages and support along the way. It's been a terrific journey.
Sunday, October 5, 2008
Packing our bags!
The next blog entry should be from home! :) We are schedule to arrive back in SLC Monday night around 7:15 pm on Delta airlines.
Saturday, October 4, 2008
Bowling in Kiev
We found a really nice bowling alley in Kiev this afternoon and took her bowling for the second time in her life. Apparently she want bowling one time while visiting a family in France a few years ago. She did very well considering she's really not been exposed much to it. You pay for bowling by the hour here so everyone gets two of the same ball so they can hurry and throw the second ball before your first ball comes back to get more bowling completed :) I wondered why there were so many balls on the rack at first but I quickly learned the reason. The cost was a little over $5 per hour per person. That's a fair price but it's considered a luxury here because that is very expensive for the average person.
Museum of the Great Patriotic War
It is one of the largest museums in Ukraine (over 300 thousand exhibits) centered around the 205 ft. tall Motherland statue, which has become one of the best recognized landmarks of Kiev.
Lexi borrowed Natalie's sunglasses for this fun photo!
St. Michael's Golden-Domed Monastery
Matrioshka Dolls
Lexi and Natalie
Kiev Independence Square at night
Friday, October 3, 2008
Lexi and Todd
Friendship of Nations Arc
Saint Sophia Cathedral in Kiev
Sites of Kiev
Thursday, October 2, 2008
Visa Approved!
Today we had our final interview with the US Embassy. They take time to ask both of us questions to make sure we're qualified as parents and Lexi is 100% committed to joining our family before they issue a visa to the United States. After our visit we were officially "approved"! That was the last step in the adoption process. Lexi becomes a United States citizen the moment we land in NYC on our way home. They gave me a sealed packet that has to be given to Immigration officials in New York City at the airport. I guess it contains all of the necessary paperwork to allow her entry into the country.
We celebrated by taking a boat ride on the Dnieper river. Kiev is located on both sides of the Dnieper River, which flows south through the city towards the Black Sea. This was the first time in her life she had ever been on a boat! She'll have a few more "firsts" ahead when we get her home.
We celebrated by taking a boat ride on the Dnieper river. Kiev is located on both sides of the Dnieper River, which flows south through the city towards the Black Sea. This was the first time in her life she had ever been on a boat! She'll have a few more "firsts" ahead when we get her home.
Kiev City Golden Gate
This gateway was one of three constructed by Yaroslav the Wise, Prince of Kiev, in the mid-eleventh century. In 1982, the gate was completely reconstructed for the 1500th anniversary of Kiev. (that's a LONG time ago!) The top picture will help you see the actual size of the gate!
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
Passport, Visa and Medical exams
Early this morning Vladimir brought Alexa from Sumy to Kiev to complete her necessary medical examinations. An important part of adoption is having the parents certify that they know and understand the health of their child before the adoption is complete. They ran x-rays, blood tests and other important tests on Alexa for several hours this morning. Once complete, I was asked to join with the doctor as he signed all of the necessary documents and made sure I knew Alexa was in excellent health.
I've been incredibily impressed with some other Americans that I've met here who are adopting children with severe medical problems such as downs syndrome and cerebal palsy. I offered to hold a 3 year old girl this morning with cerebal palsy at the US Embassy so her adopting mother could do the extensive required paperwork. The little girl can't walk and won't go to any strangers so unfortunately I was not much help. The mother was here alone from South Carolina and was doing her best to complete all the paperwork alone. What a wonderful person she is to give this little girl a chance to have a family who will take care of her in spite of her physical handicap!
After we received the necessary medical checks we hustled over to the US Embassy where I filed the papers for Alexa's visa. We will go back again on Thursday for a final interview and hopefully the visa will be complete. Since Alexa is now 16 years old, the US does a complete background check before allowing her entry into the US. Sometimes that check takes a couple extra days.
We're getting closer!
I've been incredibily impressed with some other Americans that I've met here who are adopting children with severe medical problems such as downs syndrome and cerebal palsy. I offered to hold a 3 year old girl this morning with cerebal palsy at the US Embassy so her adopting mother could do the extensive required paperwork. The little girl can't walk and won't go to any strangers so unfortunately I was not much help. The mother was here alone from South Carolina and was doing her best to complete all the paperwork alone. What a wonderful person she is to give this little girl a chance to have a family who will take care of her in spite of her physical handicap!
After we received the necessary medical checks we hustled over to the US Embassy where I filed the papers for Alexa's visa. We will go back again on Thursday for a final interview and hopefully the visa will be complete. Since Alexa is now 16 years old, the US does a complete background check before allowing her entry into the US. Sometimes that check takes a couple extra days.
We're getting closer!
Back in Kiev Ukraine
I'm back in Kiev as of Tuesday morning this week to complete the adoption process. Natalie picked me up at the airport and helped me get settled into my new apartment for this week in the downtown area of Kiev, a city with over 5 million people! It's a very busy city with far too many cars than than the roads are made to handle. So far I've experienced being stuck in traffic for hours, riding the underground Metro system (10 cents gets you anywhere in the city) and several city buses. It's a maze of millions of people.
These pictures were taken from the city center which is only a 5 minute walk from my apartment. Notice the McDonalds restaurant in the middle left of the bottom picture. That's the only US fast food place here and it's very popular even though it's very expensive for the average person to eat there.
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Time spent at the orphanage
Many have asked if we seen the Sveta which we hosted last fall. We talked with her at the orphanage and she is doing great and happy. She was a little tenative at first to see us but hugged us both. I think we mentioned before that she has spent the past 7 summers in France with a great little family which we have had contact with over email and they love her. They have a daughter her age and younger son and her desire is to finish school in Ukraine and be a part of their lives and we hope it works out for her. Tanya and Laina were also hosted this past fall and they are great friends to each other and darling girls. It was so fun to see all these kids again.
This has been an interesting journey for Todd and I as we feel things have turned out as they needed to. There have been many things happen along the way that have put us in the position to adopt Alexa and truly feel it is meant to be this way. I had a lot of concern before we came as to what would happen but because of Todds peaceful nature and encouragement from our kids it has been a great experience. I feel so peaceful and a great love for Alexa and very happy to have her be a part of our family.
This has been an interesting journey for Todd and I as we feel things have turned out as they needed to. There have been many things happen along the way that have put us in the position to adopt Alexa and truly feel it is meant to be this way. I had a lot of concern before we came as to what would happen but because of Todds peaceful nature and encouragement from our kids it has been a great experience. I feel so peaceful and a great love for Alexa and very happy to have her be a part of our family.
We spent some time at the orphanage with the other families there. This is also where Alexa spent 8 years even though she has now graduated from there. These are some of the children that were hosted a year ago and being adopted. The orphanage is set up more as a boarding school and even though it was old, there were grounds for the kids to play on, an apple orchard, small garden and a small river close by. The kids have teachers that care for them and have worked with them for many years.
Last Sunday Branch Meeting
This is the Milne family who is adopting Austin and the Rogers family who are adopting brothers Artem and Sasha. We all hosted children together this past year and have gone thru this journey together along with several other families. Its been great making friends along the way as have spent some time together.
Natasha, Tanya and Natalie
What would we have done without great translators? The process there went as smooth as possible because of them. We became great friends along the way. With several families there all at the same time, they were able to take care of all of us and it was fun getting to know them. It was hard for me to say goodbye knowing I wasn't going back but Todd would be the one. I have always disliked saying final goodbyes....easier to avoid them so we tried keeping it casual. How lucky we are for emails and such. Natalie has seen many adoptions the past years and knows the system well. Tanya and Natasha were newly hired because of the number of families but they were all professional. Tanya was only 18 and Natasha 25.
It was hard to find many who were very friendly that wanted to talk to you while we were there but this gentlemen was very different. He was actually the bus driver who took us all to the river for the baptism we attended. Not a member of the church but loved the missionaries. He was so great! There was something about Todd he liked as he would grab him and talk away in russian....as if Todd understood! Next thing we know he is dialing someone on his phone and would hand the phone to Todd to talk. It was his daughter that lived in Kiev that spoke some English and wanted her to practice so he called her a few times. Then he called his son that lived somewhere else. He was so funny and we loved talking with him....mainly listening to him speaking Russian very fast like we understood. He asked Todd to call his daughter again back in Kiev when he returned. It was good to see someone full of life there.
In the air......again :)
Todd is on his way to bring Alexa back. I am at home waiting anxiously. With mixed emotions we have both been home the past week. It has been so great to be back at home with our family and all the great things about America but was hard leaving Alexa there even for the 10 days. Everyone is so excited to get her here. We have really missed her this week and have called a few times. We can tell she is working on her English already and sounded so cute on the phone as we said how are you and she responded...fine, thank you. How many 16 year olds respond like that :) Todd left yesterday for the long journey back to finish up the process and I have to say I'm a little jealous. Not for the journey back but to beable to be apart of the final leg. He promised to keep us updated! I keep thinking about how hard this could be for her to leave all she has known for the past 16 years to start new. We know how great it is to live here but a little unkown for her and to live in a different culture, a new language, new friends and family could feel pretty scary at 16. We learned that in just the two weeks spent in Sumy :) She gave us each a big hug as we promised to return in a week. She understands the process well as she has seen several friends be adopted over the past couple of years. She really is a sweetheart. We seen more of her personality come alive as we played ping pong. She is the girls champion at her school and really showed it to Todd who is quite good at it too. All together we hope she adjusts quickly as she has a very sweet but quiet disposition and we are excited! I know our children will be such a blessing in her life as siblings as they have been so supportive as always. We are so lucky....Thanks kids!!! We have watched the other blogs of friends and are so looking forward to getting together again as everyone completes their journey.
Monday, September 22, 2008
Back on US soil
We left around 4:30 am Monday morning towards the airport in Kiev. It was another 4+ hour journey because we hit the city right around rush hour. We made our flight ok but it was delayed and late getting into JFK. As a result we missed our connection to SLC and had to take the next flight 4 hours later putting us home around 11 pm tonight. We're writing this message by our gate here at JFK. If the next flight leaves and arrives on time it will be a 28 hour journey home :)
Gravesite visits
We invited Alexa and her sister Ira (her half sister, same mother) to show us where their mother and grandmother were buried in Sumy. We wanted to learn more about their family and hopefully hear some memories they had about their parents or grandparents. Alexa's parents lost their rights about 8 years ago. Her mother died about 4 years ago and her father apparently died not long after that. They're really not sure about their father since he's not been in their lives for many years.
Alexa's grandmother was the only person that visited her in the orphanage and that stopped after she passed away 3 and a half years ago. Alexa's teachers at school told us that she was a sweet lady who often mentioned that she hoped Alexa would find a home and family one day. Her grandmother had a heart condition and did what she could for the 2 girls. Alexa and Ira both had very tender feelings towards their grandmother and spoke very kindly of her.
Saturday, September 20, 2008
Adoption Update
We had our official court date in Sumy yesterday. There was a judge, 2 jury members, a prosecutor, the inspector (social worker), representative (Elene) from the technical college Alexa attends, Janet, Alexa, me, and Natalie, our interpreter. I was the only male in the room :)
The judge went through our complete dossier and read several pages about our qualifications. She asked Janet and I to stand up and answer a series of questions such as "why do we want to adopt?", "what is our house like?", "what is your income?", "tell us about your existing family", "will you be paying for her schooling at home?", etc. They make sure all of the documentation is in order and make sure the jurors agree with the court that we are fit and eligible to adopt. It's about a 45 minute process. They also asked Alexa (Vika) to stand up and explain why she wanted to be adopted and asked if she picked out her own name and wanted to be sure she was not being forced into any of this. She handled it all very well.
The decision of the court was positive so it's now official, her name will be Alexa Victoria Heiner :) There is now a mandatory 10 day waiting period before we can obtain her birth certificate, visa, passport etc. They make sure one final time that nobody wants to step forward and make claim on Vika. It's basically a formality.
Janet and I are planning to fly home on Monday during the 10 day wait. There's nothing more we can do here. I will return the following week towards the first of October to complete the process and bring Alexa home for good.
We are VERY excited!!
The judge went through our complete dossier and read several pages about our qualifications. She asked Janet and I to stand up and answer a series of questions such as "why do we want to adopt?", "what is our house like?", "what is your income?", "tell us about your existing family", "will you be paying for her schooling at home?", etc. They make sure all of the documentation is in order and make sure the jurors agree with the court that we are fit and eligible to adopt. It's about a 45 minute process. They also asked Alexa (Vika) to stand up and explain why she wanted to be adopted and asked if she picked out her own name and wanted to be sure she was not being forced into any of this. She handled it all very well.
The decision of the court was positive so it's now official, her name will be Alexa Victoria Heiner :) There is now a mandatory 10 day waiting period before we can obtain her birth certificate, visa, passport etc. They make sure one final time that nobody wants to step forward and make claim on Vika. It's basically a formality.
Janet and I are planning to fly home on Monday during the 10 day wait. There's nothing more we can do here. I will return the following week towards the first of October to complete the process and bring Alexa home for good.
We are VERY excited!!
Feeding the missionaries
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